I Love You Son.

Dear Anthony-

I wish that I could shelter you from the things of this world. I wish that I could prevent you from making the same mistakes that I have made. Some magic remedy for foolishness, but I'm afraid there isn't one.

Life is a challenge in every way. I wouldn't be doing my duty as a father if I did not tell you this. Its downright unfair at times. Other times, its just about unbearable.

But then there's the other times, times of great joy. When you know that you went out there and gave it your best. You stepped up to the plate, took your best stance, and swung your best swing.

But keep your eyes open son. Not everyone will cheer when you hit that ball. And sometimes, the better you hit the ball... the more others will want to see you trip as you run the bases.


Life is not fair. I will tell you this now. The nice guy doesn't always get to finish. But no matter what happens, don't doubt yourself.

Be proud of who you are. Rest your head at night knowing that the world is a better place with you in it. And no matter what, hit or miss, step back up to the plate and swing your best swing again. Because the man who keeps swinging, will be the man who one day hits that ball and it will fly as far as the eye can see and beyond and he will know the great glory of achievement.

I would also like to caution you against trying to find some miracle potion for the pain. There really isn't one. We're human and pain is part of our experience whether we would like it to be or not. We must face our heartbreaks.

And when you experience hardship in your life, and I assure you, you will, know that without the pain, the pleasure would never be as good. Without disappointment, without sadness, without loss... you would not know the glory of achievement, the thrill of victory or the great joy that life brings with it.

Life is a collection of moments some good, some bad. Its a collage of bright colors or the smell of freshly cut grass. Its the heart to heart talks in the middle of the night with a really close friend. Its the feeling you get when someone you love tells you that they think you're something special.

It's the little things that make life worth living.

I may not be your Dad, but I will always be your father.
And I love you Son.