Dear Anthony,
Today is Wednesday May 5th and I have been on the road now for two full days. I am riding my motorcycle from Fort Lauderdale to Costa Rica. For what reason? I want to see how far I can go.
So far, I've driven 1100 miles. I am outside the town of Lafayette, LA - 240 Mi away from the Texas line.
Son, I have seen some beautiful country on my journey through Florida, Alabama, Mississippi and Louisiana. And, the people have been really friendly.
My bike broke down twice already. The first time the chain came off. The second time it snapped off. Fortunately, God was looking out for me both times because it happened while making slow turns... if it would have happened while I was driving at 70 mph ... I would have been thrown from my bike.
The second time, a bicyclist, driving by at the time, helped me lift my bike out of the road. It was completely locked up and I couldn't move it alone. Then, not more than a minute later, two bikers stopped to help me.
Not wanting to leave me stranded, they agreed to come back with a motorcycle trailer to help me haul my bike to Tallahassee to a repair shop. The two men turned out to be state cops working for ol' Jeb Bush, the governor of Florida.
They dropped my bike off and took me to a motel nearby where I spent the night. The next morning, I started walking to the repair shop when a man on a crotch rocket pulled over and asked if I needed a ride. He saw that I was holding my helmet and assumed that I had just broken down. He said, "I know... I'm not too excited about it either ... but we need to stick together out here." I couldn't have said it better.
My bike was fixed in a relative jiffy and I was back on the road again.. Hauling ass across the state of Florida to Panama City. Coincidently, the road that the repair shop was on .... was the right road that I needed to be on to get to Panama City. Awesome!!
It was a beautiful sunny day as they all pretty much have been. I stopped in a couple of shops along the way and just moseyed along in no particular hurry. I stopped at this little restaurant in the town of Bristol called "Country Cooking" where I met these two old timers. Next thing I know, we're comparing military stories and indian wrestling in the middle of the restaurant. Funny!
One of the men, his name was Mr. T Jacobs who has been in this town his whole life... probably 60+ years. He told me that he lived on a lake called Lake Mystic... its one of my dreams to live on a lake one day so I had to see it. He agreed to take me there and off we went.
The Lake was absolutely breathtaking...not the biggest lake that I have ever seen, but very beautiful as lakes go. And it was filled with fish! The house that caught my eye was the largest house on the far bank. A large home with a dock and an underground wing. That's right...a whole seperate house existed underground and that's where the father lived who had given the main house to his daughter. Pretty cool!
We sat on his dock for about an hour, feeding the fish little pieces of bread and peanut butter. It started to get late and we headed back to town, but on the way...
He took me to this secret little pond on the edge of town where he is planning to make a park. Then he showed me available real estate around the lake... I began to wonder if maybe he was a secret real estate agent or something. So anyway, he took me back to the restaurant... we exchanged information and parted ways.
The owner of the restaurant, Ms. E made me some down home country cooking- fried chicken, ocra, collard greens, rice, meat loaf and pancakes and a large glass of lemonade. It was the best meal that I had had since hitting the road. On her wall was a sign that I'll never forget because it so aptly captured this moment in time.... "This is the day the Lord has made. Rejoice and be glad."
I was so glad that I didn't want to leave. But I have a goal and this keeps me moving.
When I arrived at Panama City... I stopped at the first interesting place I could find... Coyote Ugly Saloon. Here I met the brothers from Ohio. I don't even recall their names to be honest with you. But they were awesome. We had a lot of fun watching the girls dance on the bar and going a little bit wild, but it was getting late and I needed to figure out where I was going to lay my head.
They insisted that I spend the night at their hotel. Free of charge. And off we went, the "midnight ride to Crestview" which is 30 or so miles west of Panama City. It was very cold and foggy. I wasn't sure if I would make it the whole way on my bike. I was freezing... then the guy kept making U-Turns... So you can imagine what was going through my mind.
Then their van overheated. This was not going well. We pulled into a gas station to get water to cool down the engine. A man comes walking over, confident that he can help. He has one of the brothers get inside the van and keep the engine revved, rotating the cold water into the engine. It works and we're back on the road.
When we got back to the hotel, I was ice cold and one of the brothers was passed out in the van where his brother left him to sleep it off. Cool.. this means I get a bed and a good night's sleep.
The following morning, they left really early to go to work, but thankfully, they let me sleep in. I left before I even had a chance to say goodbye... but I did leave my information and a thank you note.
On the road again....
By this time, I had 700 miles under my belt. I figured another 200+ and I would be in New Orleans. I passed through Mobile, AL and ended up in New Orleans by nightfall.
New Orleans reminded me of Philadelphia a little bit... really dirty on the outside. If you're looking to let it all hang loose, I highly recommend New Orleans, but I must have caught it at a bad time. I was bored. I had a few conversations with some people, but nothing to write home about. I pulled my bike and my gear out of the garage and headed out...Happy that I saw it and glad to leave.
Now, I'm only a few hours from Texas in the town of Breau Bridge, the crawfish capital of the world. Tomorrow, they start their annual Crawfish festival. Its suppose to be a really good time... but I don't think that I'll stay. Money goes quick in the states and I don't have much time.
I admit that I know there's a chance that I won't make it to Costa Rica... but right before I left, Stef, my girlfriend, gave me a journal. On the cover of the journal was written,
"You will never know how far one can go, unless you risk going too far". That solidified my decision to leave.
I seriously thought about turning back the second time my chain snapped. Then I listened to a message that my father had left on my answering machine two weeks prior, before he knew I was planning to do this. On the message, he told me that he was proud that I was his son. And though I don't understand why life has taken me down the road that it has, to never give up. He also said, though I may stumble and fall, that its the man that finds it within himself to get up and continue on, will be the man who will finally make that turn and a wondrous award will fall out in front of me, a wonder to behold. And then I'll know why life took me the way that it did.
So I continue on, not completely understanding why.
I will leave you with this... a piece from Kahlil Gibran that has given me a sense of peace on my journey...
And a youth said, Speak to us of Friendship.
And the prophet replied, saying:
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love
and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger,
and you seek him for peace.
When your friend speaks his mind you fear not
the "nay" in your own mind,
nor do you withhold the "ay".
And when he is silent your heart ceases
not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts,
all desires, all expectations are born and
shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be
clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the
climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save
the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks anything but the disclosure
of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth;
and only the unprofitable is caught.
So let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide,
let him know your flood also.
For what is your friend that you should
seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not
your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there
be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart
finds its morning and is refreshed.
Warmth and good vibes,
Dad